I don’t know who sent the word soul mate, which has harmed so many men and women.
I often hear girls say with expectation that I want to find someone who can read me or a man in his 30 s and 40 s who has never been married, and he doesn’t regret that he hasn’t met anyone who can walk into my heart for so many years
Reading me and entering the heart has gradually become a high standard in love. It is like a ruler to declare high-quality love. For those couples who don’t talk to each other every day, life seems to be low-end and not worth pursuing, but in reality, it seems that couples who don’t pay attention to the spiritual level live happier and more heart-warming. Those who clamor for a soul mate every day not only have their partners but also have no peace.
This is probably because the soul mate is a false proposition, and it is not rooted in the fact that two people who are well matched in all aspects may not agree in spirit, and the closer they are in spirit, the more likely they are to be rejected.
I know two friends who write poems. Let’s just call them Mr. Poetry and Miss Poetry. Now there are very few poets who can read, not to mention poets. When two people meet, they meet in a foreign land, and they are so kind that they can’t get along. It is also a good choice for two people who are put on an island to hold a group to keep warm, so they will soon be together.
Mr. Shi is a real Mr. Shi, and no one else cares about it except writing and reading. Miss Shi still thinks that it is really rare to pay so much attention to spiritual people. Although she is not happy in her heart, she still takes care of all the trivial matters at home. At that time, after dinner, the two of them will lie on the sofa. When Mr. Twilight Poetry reads the newly written poems to her, she will make a few comments, but more often, she will listen to him and become tired and disappear with the sound.
As the days go by, the poems written by Mr. Shi seem to be getting better and better, and more and more articles are published in major poetry magazines, while Ms. Shi is entangled in trivial matters of life. When her passion for writing poems is gone, she wants to stop writing, so she can take care of her family and teach her husband in the future. She didn’t expect it to be her, but Mr. Shi can’t forgive her.
Why don’t you write poetry? You stopped there. Then how can we ask him later?
Miss Shi was shocked. Why didn’t she write poetry? Can’t she even read poetry? You write and I read. We both write and write every day. What should we do?
Mr. Shi is particularly angry at her careless attitude. I would rather you didn’t take care of our lives than let you write poems.
She can’t help crying and laughing, and she has no life to poetry.
Since then, such quarrels have become commonplace, especially on the day when Mr. Shi’s poems are published, he will drink a little wine and then accuse Miss Shi of depravity. Gradually, the gap between them is getting deeper and deeper. Before Mr. Shi wanted to express his views on some things, they would also ask Miss Shi for advice. Even now, Mr. Shi turned a deaf ear to her, and she still hates iron and does not produce steel. Although Miss Shi stopped writing poems, the two men parted ways after more than two years. Now Mr. Shi is still alone and Miss Shi has married a Chinese teacher and lived an ordinary life of three meals a day.
According to Plato, it is estimated that the true soul mate is the ultimate connection in poetry or art, but so what? How many couples and artists eventually die of old age, and even friends can’t be friends, so it is even more difficult to forgive each other.
In her name, Zhang Xinxin tells the story of two people who came together because of their artistic talent attraction, but also because of their different artistic pursuits. At first, when they looked at each other, they felt so happy that they couldn’t wait to respond to each other’s every thought. But gradually, their souls no longer fit in with each other’s quarrel and slipped into an ordinary life. The man complained that I had enough things to deal with outside. When I got home, I needed her to be gentle and considerate, and she didn’t do anything silently, even if she didn’t understand anything. In this way, if she wants to do her thing, I still don’t understand why she is so difficult to domesticate, and the heroine is not to be outdone and needs it. In the end, I don’t need a little caress to express a little sweetness.
How ridiculous and ridiculous two people are! No matter how profound the soul mate is, it can’t withstand the daily quagmire, and the deeper it is, the deeper the torture will be. You see, in the end, the two people will either be your home, I will sleep and rest, and I will do my job without disturbing each other, let alone communicating with each other, and I won’t even talk.
The fact is that the more we talk about the contradictions and entanglements in our hearts, the more everyone stands for their own position. If two people happen to be lovers, this contradiction will be unconsciously amplified and the requirements for the other party will become higher. Others will not understand, but how can you and my boyfriend and girlfriend not understand me? It seems that after two people reach their soul mates, they must add more functions.
And what’s the state of understanding each other? It’s definitely not illusory, but that two people reach a tacit understanding from every move. It’s not necessarily that you talk about a topic, and I can also explain it. It’s that when you need to rest, I turn down the volume of the TV. At the moment, you know that I can’t eat spicy food. Every time I go to dinner, I don’t order a little spicy food. When you are wronged, even if I don’t say a word, you still feel warm. It means understanding certain daily life. It needs simple bits and pieces, small consideration,
Those who keep calling for a soul mate have been wandering on the road because his pursuit is in the middle of the sky, but he can give him knowledge, but he is walking on the ground. It is wrong for mortals to walk in the sky, in the ground, in an abstract and in a specific latitude, but this contrast also provides a way to start from the ground, to fly to the days, to weave a beautiful dream, and the soul mate is the dream, and the pursuable method to get the dream.
Chapter VII Their Words
Chapter VII Their Words
I’m the chicken blood anchorwoman
Ma Ning, a magazine columnist such as the owner of Beijing People’s Broadcasting Station and his girlfriend.
I don’t know Kun Yi. It’s the first time I know that she is her article. Everyone except you is working hard. Even the People’s Daily official micro-revised it and forwarded it to connect me with her. pin is that I am the female anchor called Chicken Blood written in her article.
In fact, I’m ashamed. I’m just a procrastinator by nature, but I’m praised as the goddess of energy in my friends’ eyes. In fact, I’ve read this title carefully, and I think she deserves it more than I do.
In addition to treating work and life positively, being enthusiastic and diligent, it is also very important to have a correct outlook on life. In other words, speed is more important than direction. If you don’t go beyond the outlook on life, your persistent pursuit may become a terror, and all kinds of attempts may become unscrupulous. After you express your opinions from Weibo WeChat, you will regret to find that you have a wrong outlook on life, but you don’t know that there are a few people. In this context, it is not terrible than poverty. In this article, she quoted a post to reveal to us that poverty thinking is really about you and me. People around me are ashamed to have a good life with the girls in the dormitory, but when they are freshmen, they are wearing a smart phone. It’s really shameless to show off their rich boyfriends and pick her up in the car. After shopping in a big shopping mall, they put their shopping bags on the table as if they were deliberately showing us that spending money and a dress cost us a month, and then she woke us up. If we change our mindset, would it be better if we were poor? But poverty is also easy to shape a person’s eyes. Don’t be immersed in poverty. Sleepy thinking to think about everything. How worthy of praise is this kind of fair-minded attitude of Si Qi. It is said that energy is not blindly fighting chicken blood and chicken soup, but gently exhorting you to look at the most beautiful posture in the world to live like this.
I hope that everyone who has been suffering and confused can read this, and you will find pleasure and firm relief in your cruel youth. After going through this process, you will be surprised to find that everyone else has worked hard.
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See through one’s youth
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There is a warm smell of writing, as if the city is blurred and lonely at night, but a small lamp is swaying but blooming persistently, as if beautiful music is streaming at midnight, which warms the city at night. You can light a honey lamp and read every word quietly when you are alone, as if you have read your mind and seen through your youth. The only constant in those years is that you love life and grow up with the best self.
But don’t ask about the future when you know and do good things.
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The world is so lively that people have lost their way, and people have won honors and grown up with their own life posture. In my eyes, the post-life gives us the possibility of numbers. We have experienced all kinds of things because our hearts are deeply attached to it. Here, she tells you that life can choose not to hide. The world is acceptable, and there is no need to compromise. In her eyes, the past is like this, sometimes it is light and sometimes it is dark. It is like this, sometimes it is warm and sometimes it is indifferent.